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5.5   Marriage

          Introduction to marriage
          Marriage is one of the important parts of
          our life and  is  very special for  us. It has
          been continuously taking  place since the
          ancient time. Marriage is compulsory  in
          our society. Everyone likes to get married
          at the certain age. A male and a female are
          tied as husband and wife after marriage.
          They  start living together,  have  sexual
          relationship, give birth  to children and
          continue the generation.                  Fig: 35

          Marriage is a process. It is an institution. People establish a relationship between a male
          and a female according to their social norms and values, cultural and religious practices.
          Then the relationship between a male and female is legalized as husband and wife as well
          as the children given birth by them get social status and recognition.
          Marriage is the relationship between a male and female established by some medium
          which recognizes them as husband and wife according to social  tradition, cultural
          activities and religious practices.
          Marriage is an eternal, biological and psychological relationship between a male and
          female joined as husband and wife.
          Marriage helps people to fulfill their biological needs. After marriage, husband and wife
          can have sexual relationship which is legal. Otherwise, people are not supposed to have
          sexual relationship before marriage. People satisfy their sexual desires  and give birth
          to children. However, marriage is not only limited to fulfillment of sexual desires. It is
          psychological as well. Both husband and wife should have sense of love, understanding ,
          sacrifice and compromise among each other. Actually, people are incomplete and possess
          many weakness as well. After marriage, people become complete as husband and wife
          support each other and each other’s weaknesses are overcome by each other. There will
          be sharing of ideas and knowledge. Both of them fulfill their responsibilities well and
          solve the problems of family unitedly. They manage family resources. They fulfill their
          responsibilities for taking care of children and plan for the welfare of children as well
          as entire family. The married couples enjoy their family life happily. In our context, the
          couples are made in heaven. Once, they get married, the relationship should last forever.
          Some times, there might be disputes and quarrels. But, marriage should not be broken up
          and end up in divorce. Hence, marriage is eternal.

          Purpose of marriage

          People get married for the following purposes:
          i.   To fulfill biological and social needs.
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