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A d d e n d U M   I I I
                 •  Relaxation-imagery-visualization
                 •  Thoughts-consciousness-intentionality
                 •  Appropriate eye contact
                 •  Smiling, positive gestures
                 •  Active listening
                 •  Heart awareness (what we hold in our hearts is energetically
                   being communicated)
                 •  Nature, light, sound/noise protection
                 •  Others
               •  Encourages others to ask questions.
               •  Helps others explore alternative ways, to find new meaning in
                their situations/life journeys in dealing with their health/self-
                  healing approaches.

           Engaging in genuine teaching-learning experiences that attend to unity
           of being and meaning, attempting to stay within another’s frame of
           reference. The co-created caring relationship promotes knowledge, growth,
           empowerment and healing processes and possibilities for patients (others) and
           for self.
               •  Actively listens with one’s whole being to others’ relaying of
                their life experiences.
               •  Speaks calmly, quietly, and respectfully to others, giving them
                full attention in that moment.
               •  Seeks first to learn from others, understand their worldview;
                then shares, coaches, and provides information, tools, and
                options to meet others’ needs (works from others’ frame of
                reference).
               •  Participates in collegial/collaborative co-creation.
               •  Accepts others as they are and where they are with their under-
                standing, knowledge, readiness to learn.
               •  Helps others understand how they are thinking about their
                illness/health.
               •  Asks others what they know about their illness/health.
               •  Helps others formulate and give voice to questions and concerns
                to ask health care professionals.





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