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              Kim recalls that she began motherhood believ-  Kim once remarked that she loved being preg-
            ing this would be the event that would turn her life   nant,  loved  giving  birth,  and  loved  the  idea  of
            around. It did for several weeks, but slowly Kim   being  a  mother.  She  said,  “It  would  be  great  in
            became  involved  in  her  old  life.  She  received   the  beginning,  but  after  a  couple  of  months  I’d
            money  to  buy  clothes  and  food  for  her  baby.  In   start feeling bad. It seems like with both my babies
            spite of that help, however, Kim had no place to   that around 6 or 7 months, I just couldn’t handle
            live and no money to support herself. She never   anything.”
            held a legal job in her life. She qualified for post-  Although Kim took the baby to a pediatrician
            partum medical care for 6 weeks, but after that she   for follow-up care, none of those care providers
            was on her own.                                knew  her  or  knew  her  history—they  were  pri-
              When the baby was 7 months old, Kim called a   marily  concerned  with  her  son’s  health.  Kim’s
            nurse who had once cared for her during her preg-  affect  is  usually  very  upbeat;  she  smiles  easily.
            nancy and asked for help to give her daughter up   It  is  not  likely  that  anyone  ever  asked  her  any
            for adoption. She believed she would simply never   important questions about her life or her experi-
            be able to give her baby the life she knew all babies   ence of being a mother. Kim was, for all intents
            deserved. Kim was using drugs again, and the baby   and purposes, “lost to follow-up.”
            was being kept by whoever was in the mood to do   Kim’s story illustrates the kinds of complexi-
            so. Kim absolutely loved this baby, and the choice   ties that can make postpartum depression espe-
            for adoption came from this love. Kim chose a local   cially  challenging  for  women  who  live  amid
            Christian adoption agency. Staff there gave her the   drugs and chaos. In the midst of this life, women
            opportunity to read the profiles of potential fami-  still want to be good mothers and have the same
            lies, see pictures of them, and actually choose the   hopes and same dreams we all have. Drugs, alco-
            family who would raise her baby. Though she did   hol,  crimes,  and  all  the  other  ways  Kim’s  life
            not know the family’s name or address, the family   was chaotic were the only avenues by which she
            and the agency committed to regular photographs   received services—after-the-fact services.
            and updates about her daughter.                  Interventions  by  others  could  have  made  a
              Without resources or support, and without her   difference  at  many  points  in  Kim’s  life.  One  of
            baby, Kim returned to the only life she had ever   these points was during her prenatal period. She
            known  among  the  only  people  she  really  knew.   clearly  evidenced  most  of  the  risk  factors  for
            Eighteen months later, Kim gave birth to another   postpartum depression, despite her cheerful atti-
            baby. This time, she swore things would be differ-  tude  toward  the  pregnancy.  If  you  had  been  a
            ent. When this new baby was also about 7 months   nurse  caring  for  Kim  during  her  prenatal  care
            old,  Kim  found  herself  deeply  involved  in  crack   and  identified  her  to  be  at  risk  for  postpartum
            use, with her baby being passed around from rela-  depression,  what  kind  of  care  plan  would  you
            tive to relative and from friend to friend. Unfortu-  have developed before or after her baby’s birth?
            nately, Kim was present during the commission of   Would  you  have  been  willing  to  intervene  on
            a violent crime with a predictably tragic outcome.   behalf  of  Kim  or  her  baby,  even  though  their
            Although Kim did not actually commit this crime,   needs occurred within the community and not in
            she was present and was ultimately sent to prison.  the confines of a hospital or office?



            CRITICAL THINKING ACTIVITIES

             1.  Interview a friend or family member about her     3.  Were any of her experiences suggestive of risk for
             prenatal and postnatal experiences.           postpartum depression?
             2.  Did she have feelings that you expected? Did she    4.  Explore the resources available in your community
             have any that surprised you?                  for women with postpartum depression.
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