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             Babies can’t do anything for themselves when
             they’re born. They need you to feed them,
             cuddle them, help them to sleep… ‘So, it’s no
             surprise that they have a strong motivation to
             communicate what they want,’ says Annie.                                              Hold
             ‘They need it to survive!’ Right from the                                         her close
             get-go, your baby’s cries are trying to tell you
                                                                                     Yourbaby can’tseeveryfarwhenshe’s
             something. ‘In the first few weeks, the noises
                                                                                  tiny,butshe’s abletofocusonyourfacewhen
             your baby makes when she cries will probably                        you’reholding herinyourarms.Inthisposition
             just sound piercing and strained,’ says Annie.                      she’sabletosee, feelandsmellyou.Spend time
             ‘She’s learning to use her voice and you’re                          alonewithher, lookingatherandchatting. It’s

             learning to interpret it. But as the weeks go by,                      awonderful opportunityforyourbabyto
             if you listen very carefully, you’ll gradually                            watch you andfocusonthesounds
             start to hear that there are differences in the                                    you’remaking.
             cry: your baby is using a variety of noises to
             indicate what she wants.’
               Newborns always have a hearing test –
             either carried out before you leave hospital
             or done by a health professional in the first

             few weeks of your youngster’s life. ‘This is
             really important because, if babies can’t hear
             sounds, they can’t copy them,’ says Annie.
             Copying is one of the skills babies use to learn
             language. And it’s not just sounds that babies
             imitate – it’s also the way our mouth, face and
             eyes move when we talk. As time progresses,
             listen out for your baby starting to make a few
             gentle open vowel sounds, such as ‘ooh’ and

             ‘ah’. ‘It doesn’t take much strength in the
             tongue, jaw or lips to make these sounds, so
             they’re the ones that come first,’ says Annie.
             ‘By five to six months this cooing turns into
             a babbling sound that is more rhythmic.
             This shows that she’s enjoying the sound
             of her own voice, which is important for
             developing language skills, and she’s trying
             out the sounds that she hears.’ Here’s what
             you can do to help her…



                                  Have
                           daily sayings
                    Whenyou have a baby, therearesome
              thingsyoudoevery day: you change hernappy,you
             feedher,youputher in her cot. ‘Each dailyroutineisa                     Think
          richopportunityforcommunication,’ says Annie.‘Ifyouuse               tummy talk
          thesamewordstodescribe each experience,eachtime,                            time
          yourbabywillbecome attuned to those words.So,say,        Yourbabymay notbeafanoftummytime,but
              “nappytime!”every time you change her.And
                                                                 there’sasimplewaytomakeherhappieronthefloor
            reinforce the word “nappy”bytappinghernappy         andtobuildherlanguageskills–getdowntherewith
                whenyousayit. Keepitsimple:youjustwant             her!‘Ifyoulieon yourtummy,facingyourbaby, it
                  twotothreewordsforeachaction,suchas            motivateshertoraiseherheadandlookatyou,’says
                       “Bedtime!”,“Let’shavemilk!”and              Annie.‘Thisbuildshermuscles,whichsheneeds
                                “Let’sgoout!”’
                                                                       foreatingas well as for rolling, crawling
                                                                       andwalking, and it’s a great opportunity
                                                                                to talk face-to-face.’
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