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Dear American Girl,                              Dear American Girl,                              Dear American Girl,

           After school, I get distracted,                  I just got a phone, and I love                   I love to decorate, organize,

           and then I start my homework                     it. There are some apps and                      garden, and cook. Kids at my

           late. How can I block off all                    games that scare me, but a                       school call me “Mom,” and it

           the distractions so I can get                    lot of kids at my school use                     really hurts my feelings. How

           things done?                                     them. Should I do those things                   can I make them stop?

                                                            on my phone to fit in?

           Afer a long day of learning, it’s only                                                            It sounds like your schoolmates don’t

           natural to need a bit of a break, so             Phones are not only a lot of fun but             understand your interests. Instead of

           take one. But it’s easy to get side-             also a big responsibility. Part of that          taking offense to being called
           tracked by all the fun ways to stay              responsibility is keeping yourself               “Mom,” embrace your talents by

           entertained. To get back on track,               safe in the digital world. Technology            telling them, “This is how I express

           set a timer for 30 minutes and pick              offers freedom that you don’t always             myself.” Invite some kids over to bake

           one or two activities to do during               have in your real life, and that means           cupcakes for a school sale. Present a

           that time. When time’s up, put the               you have to be smart about how you               science project about plant life. Pair

           activities aside and focus on your               use it. If something seems scary to              up with a friend and volunteer to

           homework. You could also ask your                you, listen to the wise voice inside             design the classroom bulletin board.

           parents to help out—they can call or             you and skip it or talk to your                  Or help a classmate organize her

           text you to check on your progress.              parents about it. When it comes to               locker. Once they see how much fun

           Plan a special activity to do only               apps and games, stick to what you                your DIY world can be, a lot of kids

           after your work is done. You’ll finish           like and don’t cave in to digital peer           will probably want to join “Mom’s”

           in no time!                                      pressure.                                        family.







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