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                                                           4. Stay open to hearing their stories. Likewise, aging par-   • North Ridgeville Home Instead – 35590 Center Ridge
                                                         ents may forget that they shared something moments ago  Rd in North Ridgeville
                                                         and repeat themselves. Typically, stories from their young-  • First Federal Lakewood – 33701 Center Ridge Rd in
                                                         er days are recalled more vividly and accurately than the  North Ridgeville
                                                         events of the past 24 hours. Old stories may be familiar re-  • Bread and Brew – 100 South Main St in Wellington
                                                         runs too. But with patience, you might learn something new   • Village Market – 816 North Main St in Wellington
                                                         about your family’s history—a veritable gold nugget.  • Little Green Apple Hallmark Shop – 35910 Detroit Rd
                                                           5. Remember gratitude. Caring for aging parents can be  in Avon
                                                         mentally exhausting, even if you aren’t their primary care-  • Tuffy Tire and Auto Service Center – 649 Leona St in
                                                         giver. If you’re feeling down, try recalling the many ways  Elyria
                                                         your parents helped you and feel thankful for their gifts of    “This program is so much more than gift-giving – it’s
                                                         time, energy, and devotion. Focusing on gratitude can light-  about the special moments and joy shared between the old-
                                                         en your spirit and make it easier to return the love.  er adults and the community  around them,” said Fannin.
                                                           It can be hard to see someone you love struggle with men-  “There is nothing better than seeing the smile on an older
                                                         tal decline as they age. Sadly, memory loss and other cog-  adult’s face when they open their gift.”
                                                         nitive impairments are all too common. There are no easy   Be a Santa to a Senior is a true community  program,
             5 Simple ways to provide                    solutions, but you can take these simple steps to treat aging  with  support  from  local  businesses,  nonprofit  organiza-
                                                         parents with respect and compassion.  If you find yourself  tions, retailers, numerous volunteers, and members of the
             loving support to parents                   in a situation where you need to help your loved one move  community. The Home Instead office in North Ridgeville
                                                         and are looking for caring, compassionate, professional real  has partnered with Lorain County Office on Aging, Welling-
             with memory challenges                      estate help, consider giving me a call at 440-371-2862.   ton  Office  on Aging,  North  Ridgeville  Community  Care,
                                                                                                           Walmart (Elyria), City of Elyria (Civil, Criminal and Re-
                                                           By Jennifer Herron Underwood
                                                                                                           cords Departments), First Federal of Lakewood (North Rid-
         This is the time of the year where many of us will be     Be a Santa to a Senior                  geville) and Community of Faith United Church of Chris
      spending more time with our family, friends, and our par-                                            (Elyria) to help with gift collection and distribution.
      ents.  Sometimes when we get caught up in the hustle and                                               Since the program’s inception in 2003, Be a Santa to a
      bustle of the holiday season it is easy to be overwhelmed   As the  community  prepares  to  celebrate  the  season of   Senior has mobilized more than 65,000 volunteers, provided
      and to not be as patient as our loved ones need us to be.    giving, Home Instead® encourages North Ridgeville resi-  approximately 2.2 million gifts, and brightened the season
      Now, more than ever, is the time that we adult children need   dents to share the holiday spirit with older adults who may   for more than 750,000 deserving older adults nationwide.
      to slow down and support our parents especially if we are   not have family and feel alone. Through Be a Santa to a Se-  For more information visit BeaSantatoaSenior.com.
      seeing signs of memory challenges.  Here are 5 tips to help   nior®, community members can give a special holiday gift    To learn more about helping older adults in North Rid-
      show your loving support:                         to an older adult who may otherwise go without.     geville, visit imreadytocare.com.
         1. Speak slowly and clearly. Cognitive decline, potential-  “A simple gift can bring such joy to older adults who may
      ly coupled with hearing loss, makes it harder to process in-  not have loved ones to celebrate with,” said Marny Fannin,
      formation quickly. Make it easier for Mom or Dad to follow   director of business development of the North Ridgeville
      your words by slowing down, speaking clearly, and pausing   Home Instead office. “Through Be a Santa to a Senior, we
      between sentences. If you’re talking face-to-face instead of   can help them feel the holiday spirit.”            440-355-4616
      over the phone, sit close, so you don’t have to speak loudly.   This year program coordinators hope to collect gifts for   Keystone Pointe Offers:
         2. Only correct  them  when it’s essential.  If a  parent’s   125 local older adults. This is the program’s 12 year in the   •Large Private Rooms
      memory is fragile, there will be numerous instances when   area.                                                      •5 Star Rating - Medicare’s Highest
      facts are confused, and details are forgotten, perhaps sec-  To  participate,  shoppers  can  look  for  Be  a  Santa  to  a
      onds later. Avoid correcting them unless it’s genuinely help-  Senior trees or displays at locations around the area. Orna-        •Secured Dementia Unit
      ful to do so, enhancing their ability to enjoy the conversa-  ments featuring the name and desired gift of an older adult           •Post Hospital & Long-term Care
      tion.                                             will be on display, and shoppers can buy the requested gift
         3.   Repeat  things  as often  as necessary.  It  doesn’t   card and return it to the location with the ornament attached.
      matter that you’ve told the same story several times before.   Ornaments will be available from November 1 to December
      And, it’s irrelevant if you need to share important family   2. The gifts will be delivered to local older adults in time for     383 Opportunity Way
      news more than once. Instead of showing any signs of frus-  the holidays.                                                         LaGrange, OH 44050
      tration over repeating yourself, be thankful that you’ll never   Be a Santa to a Senior trees can be found at the following   Near the intersection of 301 & 303
      run out of things to talk about!                  locations:




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