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                                                                                    oving  people  means  summoning
                                                                                      them forth
                                                                                     with the loudest and most insistent
                                                                                      of calls;
                                                                                 §it means stirring up in them
                                                                                      a mute hidden being
                                                                                     who  can’t  help  leaping  at  the
                                                                                   sound      of our voices—
                                                                                 _a being so new
                                                                                     that even those who carried him
                                                                                 I
                                                                                     didn’t know him,
                                                                                   and yet so authentic
                                                                                     they can’t fail to recognize him
                                                                                      once they discover him.
                                                                                     II  love  includes  fatherhood  and
                                                                                      motherhood.
                                                                                    o love someone is to bid him to live,
                                                                                      invite him to grow,
                                                                                    ince  people  don’t  have  the  courage
                                                                                     to  mature  unless  someone  has
                                                                                    aith in them,
                                                                                   we have to reach those we meet
                                                                                      at  the  level  where  they  stopped
                                                                                      developing,
                                                                                      where  they  were  given  up  as
                                                                                      hopeless,
                                                                                      and so withdrew into themselves
                                                                                      because they were so alone
                                                                                      and no one cared.
                                                                                  They  have  to  feel  they’re  loved  very
                                                                                     deeply and very boldly
                                                                                      before  they  dare  appear  humble
                                                                                     and kind, affectionate, sincere
                                                                                     and vulnerable.
                                                                                                                   Louis Evely







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