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      Feeding Our Fathers


      T  he thought of cooking for 30 men every night would terrify most,
         but Helen Lopuchowycz says, “It was no big deal.” For those old
      enough to remember the Basilian House at 402 Augustine Street, Helen
      was the woman behind the scenes making three-, sometime four-course
      dinners each night for the Basilian Fathers who lived there – many of
      whom taught or worked at Aquinas at one time or another.
      From 1976 until 2000, their kitchen was Helen’s second home,   Helen meets Pope John Paul II. In 2002, she cooked for him and nearly 50 others staying on Strawberry
      a place where all fi ve of her children – Stephen ’81, Th  omas ’82,   Island for World Youth Day.
      Andrew ’88, Christine (Grout) ’88, and Victoria ’98 – spent time
      aft er school, a place where she not only created beautiful meals
      for “her boys” as she aff ectionately refers to them, but beautiful
      friendships as well.
      Th  e memory of how the position came about, written down on a
      notepad kept by Helen, reads:

        My eldest son was in grade 9 at Aquinas Institute and had
        Rev. Michael Cerretto, CSB as his theology teacher. Father
        Cerretto was also bursar at the residence so when need of   Helen (far right) attends the 25th anniversary celebration of Rev. John Huber’s ordination. Fr. Huber
        a ‘temporary’ cook arose, he canvassed his students for a   (center, sitting) lived at 402 Augustine Street during Helen’s time there as the cook. He is now the
        mother willing to fi ll the position. My son, Stephen, raised   President of Catholic Central High School in Detroit
        his hand and enthusiastically said, ‘My mother can!’ So   you would do is stop in the kitchen and say ‘hi’ to Helen. She was
        began my journey with the priests of the Congregation of   somebody who the priests would confi de in. She was very uplift ing
        St. Basil.                                             and affi  rming.” Th  at connection she felt with the Basilian Fathers
                                                               and the belief in what they were doing as a ministry at Aquinas and
      For nearly 25 years she would arrive at the home on Augustine   elsewhere eventually led her to become a Basilian Lay Associate.
      Street at 2:00 p.m. so that she could have dinner on the table by
      6:00 p.m. Her menu usually included a soup, salad, entrée and   Aft er the Basilian House closed in 2000, and Helen’s formal dinner
      dessert – all made from scratch. Helen’s Ukrainian heritage found   duties for “her boys” had ended, she picked up her apron in an
      a place on the menu as well, introducing many of the priests to   offi  cial capacity once again in 2002 when she was presented with
      Eastern European cuisine such as stuff ed cabbage and pierogis.  the rare privilege to cook for Pope John Paul II. As Helen tells it,
                                                               Rev. Tom Rosica, CSB ’77 who was the CEO and National Director
                                                               of World Youth Day, asked Rev. Dennis Kauff man, CSB ‘66 to
                                                               approach her and ask if she would cook for the Pope. Aft er realizing
                                                               the request was not a joke, she accepted the job.

                                                               For two weeks she was responsible for cooking three meals a day
                                                               for everyone who was staying on Strawberry Island including the
                                                               Basilian Fathers, the Pope and his security detail. Her menus were
                                                               sent to the Vatican months in advance for approval and not one
                                                               came back with changes. “It was no big deal. I was just doing what
                                                               I do every day,” said Helen, who remembers how loving, fun and
                                                               humble she thought the Pope to be. So humble in fact that he asked
                                                               specifi cally to speak to Helen on his way out to thank her for the
                                                               “wonderful, delicious food.” Whenever she is asked how she got
                                                               selected to cook for the Pope, Helen jokes, “I cooked for the Basilian
                                                               Fathers for 25 years and nobody ever got sick.”
     Helen is still very much involved at Aquinas, volunteering for various projects and events including the
     annual Founders’ Golf Tournament.
                                                               Not only did they never get sick, Father Huber said they were
      She also kept three cookie jars full remembering that “when the   blessed to have her. “She’s a maternal presence, but also a very
      boys would come home from school they would pass through the   dedicated presence, very faithful,” he explained. “She’s always very
      kitchen and get their cookie treats.”                    encouraging, always prays for us. She’s just one of us.”

      If you weren’t paying attention, you’d think she was referring to   Helen’s house is a regular stop when Father Huber returns to
      her own sons when she says “the boys,” but that’s just who she was   Rochester to visit family and when he does, she always has a diet
      explained Rev. John Huber, CSB ’81, President of Catholic Central   coke waiting for him – a favorite of his that decades later she still
      High School in Detroit, who lived in the house for a time. “She was   hasn’t forgotten. “Th  at’s just who I am. I take care of my family, my
      the mother of everybody. You would come home and the fi rst thing   boys, my neighbors; that’s what we’re here for.”
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