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I mention this because today many of us work in environments where
                feedback is not allowed, not forthright, and not honest. Many schools and

                businesses  are afraid to tell you what you need to hear for  fear of  being
                sued. Many friends and co-workers will speak behind your back because
                they  lack  the  courage  to  speak  to  your  face.  This  is  not  a  healthy
                environment. It is a dysfunctional environment.

                    A  healthy  environment  is  one  that  offers  feedback.  Life  is  constantly
                giving you priceless information if you are willing to receive it, and most of
                the time the feedback is free. Every time you open your pay envelope and
                see how much is lost to taxes, this is feedback. If your creditors are calling,

                demanding payment, this is feedback. If  you are working  harder and not
                earning enough, this is feedback. If you are spending more time at work and
                less  time  at  home,  this  is  feedback.  If  your  kids  are  on  drugs  and  being
                chased by the law, this is feedback. If your friends are all losers and like

                being  losers,  this  is  feedback.  It  is  great  information.  The  real  world  is
                trying to tell you something.
                    Your standard of living is a great source of feedback. If you are living in
                a  home  that  makes  you  feel  poor,  that  is  feedback.  If  you  are  driving  a

                cheap  car  when  you  would  rather  be  driving  a  Lamborghini,  that  is
                feedback. Standard of living is simply the standard you feel most at home
                with.  It  does  not  mean  being  comfortable,  cheap,  or  compromising.
                Standard  of  living  means  you  are  in  love  with  and  proud  of  your  home,

                friends,  and  possessions  rather  than  envying  someone  else’s  standard  of
                living. Again, this does not mean improving your standard by getting into
                debt. I’m talking about improving your standard of living by first finding a
                great environment to learn, getting smarter, and then growing richer.

                    You do not need to go to a great school, have a great job, or read great
                books to receive some of the best information in the world. All you have to
                do is look at the world around you and listen to the feedback.
                    There are three important things to know about feedback:




                1. Have the courage to be open to feedback. If you want to improve, seek
                more  feedback.  This  is  why  coaches  and  mentors  are  important  to

                successful people. Successful people seek more feedback.
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