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3. The Reward: This can sometimes require investigation. Why are you
                     procrastinating? Can you substitute in an emotional payoff? A feeling of

                     pride for accomplishing something, even if it is small? A sense of
                     satisfaction? Can you win a small internal bet or contest in something
                     you’ve turned into a personal game? Allow yourself to indulge in a latte
                     or read a favorite website? Provide yourself with an evening of
                     mindless television or web surfing without guilt? And will you give

                     yourself a bigger reward for a bigger achievement—movie tickets, a
                     sweater, or an utterly frivolous purchase?




                   “My boyfriend and I love movies, so as a reward for completing specific tasks on certain
                   days, he takes me to the movies. This not only is motivation to study or get homework
                   done, but also has led me to develop new habits of studying by reinforcing the
                   cue/routine/reward system.”
                         —Charlene Brisson, psychology major, accelerated second-degree nursing program





                         Remember, habits are powerful because they create neurological
                     cravings. It helps to add a new reward if you want to overcome your
                     previous cravings. Only once your brain starts expecting the reward will
                     the important rewiring take place that will allow you to create new
                     habits.
                         It’s particularly important to realize that giving yourself even a small
                     “attaboy” or “attagirl” jump-starts the process of rewiring your brain.

                     This rewiring, sometimes called learned industriousness, helps brighten
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                     tasks you once thought were boring and uninteresting.  As you will
                     find, simply getting into the flow of your work can become its own
                     reward, giving you a sense of productiveness you might not have
                     imagined was possible when you first sat down to begin working. Many
                     people find that setting a reward at a specific time—for example,

                     breaking for lunch with a friend at the deli at noon, or stopping the main
                     tasks at five P.M., gives a solid mini-deadline that can help spur work.
                         Don’t feel bad if you find that you have trouble getting into a “flow”
                     state at first. I sometimes find it takes a few days of drudgery through a
                     few cycles of the Pomodoro technique before flow begins to unfold and
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