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 very highest k i n d . H o w c a r e f u l l y then she should be chosen!                                      EC
     So i t is after a l l character that makes the home.
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                                                                                M A T E L . GIDDINGS, I , '17.
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                                         II. T H E CHAPTER HOME
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    A chapter house or a chapter home, which is ours? N o one can
 answer that question quite so w e l l as the members of the chapter.                                           a—v.   DH       •I                         4
 I t does not take long f o r girls to f i n d out whether they have home                                                       m
 privileges or those of a boarding-house. I f the question is answered                                          X      mM li ,                              3.
 in the negative, i t w o u l d be w e l l f o r that chapter to find out w h y
 it lives i n a house and not i n a home.                                                                       T.                                              •
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    T o most of us there is only one real home, the place where mother                                             an
and father, brother and sister are. There is home. Can we not find                                                                                                                             IT77\
a solution to our problem there? Consider the real home and the                                                  N
chapter house. W e find that the essence of any home is love. " " ^ j ^ ^                                                                                                  in
of us expect a love like a mother's i n a chapter home, but one like                                              •J.
that of a sister is possible. T h e first rule to f o l l o w i n the transforma-                                                                               —. • m§Jm
tion is to f i l l our house with those whom we can love. Choose, then,                                         -
f o r f r a t e r n i t y sisters only those girls who are sure to be congenial.                                                                                                                                     -'

   There are more practical things than love that help to make our                                                                                              *
houses homes. D i d you ever sleep i n the same room w i t h a g i r l
without feeling more friendly toward her? Dormitories are splen-                                                       •
d i d places f o r intimacy to get a good vigorous start so that i t w i l l                                                                           -.
ripen into something deeper. Fifteen or twenty girls sleeping in one
room interchange secrets, talk over troubles, and become like sisters,
indeed. Choose a house w i t h a possible dormitory i n i t , is another
recipe. I f fortunate enough, build one.

    O f course, a complete home has other things. There are many
l i t t l e necessities. A piano, a victrola, a fireplace, and a library are
valuable additions. A n electric flatiron and a sewing machine are
quite useful f o r modern girls who look after themselves. A barrel
of apples might make the house more of a home, especially f o r the
country girls. As l i t t l e drops of water have their use, so l i t t l e
things are important i n home-building. Our girls have a custom
of giving Christmas and birthday gifts to the house. I n that way
many home things are acquired.

   A house or a home? W h y not a l l ask that question and make the
answer affirmative?

                                                                                 CLARA M . B E L L . X . '18.

                                       III. T H E CHAPTER HOME

   Is there any word that should mean more to a person than
"Home"? What a comfortable feeling we should have when we hear
the word.
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