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124       A CHIE VING  PO TENTIAL


        Speaking up                                                        SEE ALSO
                                                                           ‹
                                                                           ‹ 18–19  Thinking independently
                                                                            22–23  Self-expression
        As teens get older, opportunities to speak up at school or university,   ‹ 86–87  Confidence and self-esteem
        on special occasions, and on behalf of important causes come up.   ‹ 90–91  Resilience
        Sharing thoughts and opinions in front of others can feel daunting,
        but these moments build confidence, and forge great memories, too.




          Big moments                                                  ▽ Different occasions
          Whether it is giving a speech at a hobby club, accepting a prize for an   The occasion will determine the
          achievement, or graduating from university, life is full of big moments   kind of speech and the approach
          for teens to present their best selves to the world.         the speaker should take.












              △ When speaking to               △ Giving a speech in support    △ For debates, it’s important to
              classmates, it’s good to use     of a cause at a rally requires   make notes and think quickly to
              a conversational tone.           clear ideas and a loud voice.   persuade the audience.











              △ Bringing objects and projects to   △ Wedding speeches typically   △ People protesting tend to
              show and explain can help when   include some jokes, but also   chant short, memorable lines
              speaking in front of a hobby club.   personal stories about the couple.   that often rhyme.











              △ Speaking at a group outing     △ When accepting a prize,     △ Graduation speeches are
              requires being clear about the   speakers tend to be humble,   usually inspirational and reflect
              plans and making instructions    humorous, and brief.          on the time spent in education.
              easy to understand.







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