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Public speaking GOOD T O KNO W

Almost everybody speaks in public from time to time. Public speaking tips
How long a person speaks for will depend on the occasion.
It might be necessary to speak for just a minute or two, • Think about what you want to say in advance and write clear,
but a presentation to an audience or a speech on behalf easy-to-read notes that you can check if necessary.
of a cause might take a lot more thought and preparation. • Be sure that the audience understands every word. Speak more
slowly than you normally would, even if you feel silly, and pause
after important points to allow them to sink in.
• Try to stand tall and maintain eye contact with those listening.
In some instances, moving about and using gestures is a great
▽ Being prepared way to engage people.
When giving a presentation or speech to an audience
that contains classmates, family, or friends, there are
some key aspects to consider beforehand.

Think about your audience – is it family, What do you want the audience to Are you trying to persuade people of
your peers, a prospective employer, know? If they remember one thing of something? Perhaps you’ve had a new
or your religious congregation? How what you say, what do you want it to idea? Or are you presenting information
formally should you speak? What topics be? Be sure to emphasize this point. about an important cause that you
will interest them? care about?

Think about the structure – is there a Be creative – could you use a poster or Will the audience ask you questions?
beginning, middle, and end? Do you a video, or pass round handouts Do you need to think about what kinds
want to include an anecdote or a joke or photographs? of questions they might ask?
at the beginning to engage
the audience?

TEEN HINTS
Conquering nerves Nerves and anticipation
It’s natural for someone to be apprehensive before a big
moment, especially if they haven‘t had much experience of • Try to be as prepared as possible – know your topic as well
speaking in front of a group of people. Practice and preparation as you can.
can help boost confidence on the day, as can positive thinking • Practise what you want to say in front of a smaller group
and a good night’s sleep beforehand.
beforehand to get feedback and build your confidence.
• Be excited – it’s an opportunity to share your ideas with
an audience.
• Before starting, place your feet firmly on the floor, take a deep
breath, count to three, and breathe out slowly.

◁ Practice makes perfect
To get a sense of the audience’s perspective,
it’s useful to practise in front of a mirror.

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