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        1. Yay! Alex made eye contact   4. You’re shopping for new   of Alec Benjamin. Some kids   C. They're coming to sit with
        with you in the hall. Here’s the   lacrosse gear when you spot a   already think you’re dating.  you. Actually, they usually
        play-by-play…             solo Sam sipping a latte. Your   B. Hall mates. You share some   find some excuse to come
        A. Alex smiled, said “hi” and   next move?            classes and exchange hellos   by every day.
          kept the eye contact until   A. Admire them from afar, but   at least three times a day.
          you strolled by.          ultimately press on. You’ve   C. Soul mates. You’re perfect   9. You’re stuck babysitting
        B. Alex waved at you, then   got a stick to score.    for each other—they, um,   your sibs on a Saturday night
          continued walking to gym.   B. You stand in their view until   just don't know it yet.  and see on Snapchat that bae
        C. After your eyes locked, Alex   they see you, then walk over                is doing the same. You shoot
          kept chatting with their   for a quick chat.      7. You miss a week of school   them a message to commiser-
          crew about picks for fantasy   C. Ask flat-out if they prefer   thanks to the season’s first flu.   ate over your mutually lame
          football this year.       STX over Warrior, too.  What’s your crush’s reaction to   weekend. The reply?
                                                            your absence?             A. “Who’s this?”
        2. Makeover time! You just   5. Your bestie thought it   A. They stop by your house   B. “Not much. Can't talk RN.”
        chopped six inches off your   would be a great idea to play   with your homework and some   C. “So bored! At least a game
        locks and got highlights, too.   truth or dare around the bon-  chicken soup.   is on. Who are you rooting
        When you bump into bae the   fire…with your crush right   B. Absolutely nada. But you   for tonight?”
        next day, they say…       there. When she dares you to   heard they’ve been really busy,
        A. “You’re in my first-period   say who you like, you…  so maybe that’s why they   10. You and Ryan both get off
          biology class, right?”   A. Panic, but take a chance.   haven’t reached out.   at the last stop on the school
        B. “Wow, you look amazing!”   “It’s someone on this   C. They shoot you a “feel   bus route. When it’s just the
        C. “Hey, something looks dif-  beach!” They'll get the hint.   better!” text.  two of you left, they…
          ferent. Is that a new jacket?”  B. Smile, say a silent thanks to            A. Slide across to the seat
                                    your bud and blurt out the   8. It’s lunchtime and your   next to you and start
        3. You’re working up the guts   name. It’s about time you   stomach does a flip-flop   chatting you up.
        to ask your crush to homecom-  know how they feel.   when you spot Dylan heading   B. Turn around from their spot
        ing. Realistically, what are the   C. Randomly ask, "Who wants   toward your table in the caf.   up front and ask you what
        chances they’ll say yes?    s’mores?!" You’re way too   What are they up to?    you think will be on next
        A. 100 percent. They’ve been   nervous to even talk to your   A. Probably checking on that   week’s English exam.
        flirting with you since the first   crush, no less confess.  algebra homework you   C. Keep their earbuds in and
        day of school.                                        promised to help them with   bob their head to their
        B. 50/50. Some days they   6. OK, be honest here: How   earlier in the week.    playlist.
        seem super into you...other   would your BFF best describe   B. You don’t wait to find out.
        days, you’re not so sure.   the relationship you currently   You’re so worried about   1. A. 3 B. 2 C. 1  6. A. 3 B. 2 C. 1
        C. You have no clue. You’ve   have with your crush?   them catching a whiff of   2. A. 1 B. 3 C. 2  7. A. 3 B. 1 C. 2
        only had a couple of convos   A. Best mates. You’re always   your tuna-salad-on-wheat   3. A. 3 B. 2 C. 1  8. A. 2 B. 1 C. 3
        with them, but you never know   chatting about movies,   breath that you quickly   4. A. 1 B. 2 C. 3  9. A. 1 B. 2 C. 3
                                                                                       5. A. 2 B. 3 C. 1
                                                                                                 10. A. 3 B. 2 C. 1
        until you try, right?       school and your mutual love   duck out the back exit.
                  10-16 POINTS                      17-23 POINTS                       24-30 POINTS
             OFF THE RADAR                      MIXED SIGNALS                    LOUD AND CLEAR


           You may be crazy for your crush, but   This sweetie’s got you on their mind—  This is *so* on. They are noticing you,
           they don’t know it. Whether you bug   some of the time. Sounds like they   all right, and if there was a “like” but-
           out whenever bae gets near you or   are at least a bit interested, so keep   ton over your head to press, they’d
           they are just completely clueless,   this person in your orbit. While you’re   have done it. You’re flirty friends at
           you have to step it up if you want to   doing a pretty good job of getting   the cusp of coupledom—all it takes is
           capture this cutie’s attention. Shuck   their attention, why not bump it up a   a solidifying step from one of you to
           your shyness and try talking to   little? Take control by sending them   turn this into the real deal. Feeling
           them—or at least try not to run away   some strong signals: Smile. Flirt. Go   bold? Go ahead and make the next
           the sec they get fewer than 50 feet   beyond a quick “hello” in the hallway   move. Call them, ask them to the
           from you. And if they don’t take the   and strike up an actual conversation   movies or see if they want to grab a
           bait? Cast your line elsewhere. As
    MMEEMIL/GETTY IMAGES  Mom always says, there are plenty   what you can to land in their direct   efforts…and you just may find your-
                                                                                burger. They’ll appreciate your
                                             with them when you get a chance. Do
           more fish in the sea.
                                             line of vision—and stay there.
                                                                                self a brand new bae.
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