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       motivated in the workplace to                                                                                  S Can you express these values
       find a sense of purpose. Use                                                      ‘Knowing                     in your present position?
       these pointers to figure out                                                      what you                     S What is the future scope for
       whether it’s your job or career                                                                                expressing them in your line of
       that’s getting you down, she                                                     don’t want                    work?
       suggests.                                                                       often leads                    S Can you talk to your boss
                                                                                                                      about finding ways to bring
       WHAT’S THE SOURCE                                                              you closer to                  what you value to life?
       OF YOUR STRESS?                                                                what you do                    S Do other companies in your
       Make a list of all the things in                                                                              industry have positions where
       yourcurrentjoborlineofwork                                                           want’                    you can express your values?
       thatcausestress.Howmanyof                                                                                     S Can you imagine an alterna-
       them are related to:                                                                                          tive career that will let you live
       S Yourindustryorcareer(such                                                                                   out those values?
       as night shifts or certain tasks
       andresponsibilitiesparticular                                                                                 WORKING TOWARDS
       to your career)?                                                                                              A JOB CHANGE
       S Your present job (such as a                                                                                  f you’ve worked through these
       nasty boss, unfriendly col-                                                                                    uestionsandfindyourselflook-
       leagues or a stressful work                                                                                    ng at positions higher than
       commute)?                                                                                                      oursandthinking“that’swhere
       S Yourcopingstyle(yourtime-                                                                                   I want to be”, you’re in need of a
       management skills, your abil-                                                                                 ob change, Matlala says.
       ity to work in a team or how
       well you handle disagreements in work             S What career options did you long for             BEFORE YOU JUMP SHIP . . .
       relationships)?                                   back then that you might have been                 S Find out whether there are opportu-
                                                         talked out of by well-meaning adults and           nities in your company for training and
       ARE YOU PROUD OF THE                              peers?                                             development.
       FRUITS OF YOUR LABOUR?                            S Now imagine that with the wave of a              S Discuss your concerns with your line
       S Do you know what your company’s                 wand you could have any job in the                 manager or the human resources de-
       goals are? Do you know how you help               world. What would you do?                          partment.
       achieve these goals? Do you believe in
       these goals?                                      WHO DO YOU LOOK UP TO?                             KEEP THESE TIPS IN MIND WHEN
       S Do you support the goals and stand-             From family members to celebrities, the            YOU LOOK FOR A NEW JOB
       ards of your career or do they leave you          people you look up to can tell you a lot           S Be discreet so you don’t damage your
       feeling compromised?                              about what you value in life.                      current work relationships.
       S Makealistofalltheaccomplishments                   Take a moment to consider who you               S Don’t quit before getting another for-
       you’re proud of. What are your accom-             admire and why. If you believe those qual-         mal offer of employment. S
       plishments telling you about what you’d           ities are worth striving for, consider this:       © GALLO IMAGES/BONA/FRANÇOISE GALLE
       liketoexperiencemoreinyourworklife?
                                                                         WORKING TOWARDS A CAREER CHANGE
       GIVE YOURSELF
       PERMISSION TO DREAM                                  If, after having thought about life coach      own events-management or professional-
       Now that you have some sense of why                  Kate Marshall’s questions, you’ve looked       organiser businesses.
       you’redemotivated,it’stimetofigureout                at every position you might fill in your       Keep these tips in mind before you
       what you’re passionate about.                        industry as a whole and can’t imagine          change your career
          Whenansweringthesequestions,give                  feeling fulfilled, you might be after a        S Get some outside perspective – it helps
       yourself permission to dream big,                    career change.                                 to look at your career through a different
       Marshall says. Imagine a time when you                 “A career change doesn’t have to be a        lens. So find a mentor or coach.
       might look back at the actions, choices              difficult move and shouldn’t always require    S Changing a career takes time. Set your-
       and decisions you made in your working               studying towards a new degree. It might        self short-, medium- and long-term plans
       life. Now ask yourself:                              just be about finding the right industry       with specific, realistic and measurable
       S How would you like to be remem-                    fit for you,” career coach Khanya Matlala      goals.
       bered?                                               says.                                             Also, remember that even the right
       S What work would you like to be known               Think of these examples                        change at the wrong time can be a bad
       for?
                                                                                                           career move.
                                                            S Nurses who’ve become personal mid-
     GALLO IMAGES/GETTYIMAGES  IMAGINE IF YOU COULD         wives and parenting coaches for first-time     now, consider what small thing you can do
                                                                                                              If a big change isn’t the right move for
                                                            parents.
       GO BACK IN TIME . . .
                                                            S Journalists who become ghost writers
                                                                                                           every day that will motivate and inspire you
       Picture yourself at the age of 15.
                                                                                                           to stay or keep looking for something new,
                                                            for celebrities.
                                                            S Personal assistants who’ve built their
                                                                                                           Marshall says.
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