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The secret life of Victoria







                                                      Queen Victoria at
                                                        the age of four



























                                                                     Upon hearing the news of her uncle’s
                                                                     death and her accession, Victoria was
                                                                     determined to rule alone


          There were many differences of opinion.   laterwritetoanadultVicky.Shewouldalsoreveal:  unintelligent. So when she became queen aged
        Respected historian Jane Ridley notes in her   “I have no adoration for very little babies.” And she  18, following the death of her uncle, King William
        biography, Victoria: Queen, Matriarch, Empress,   wouldclarify:“Anuglybabyisaverynastyobject–  IV, Victoria dismissed Sir John from her own
        that the pair rowed over how their children should   and the prettiest is frightful when undressed.”  household and dropped her mother too. If she was
        be cared for. Following one particular flare-up   Thequeenwasaprolificletterwriter.Shewould  to rule, she surmised, she would do so alone.
        regarding their first child – also named Victoria,   writeanaverageof2,500wordseveryday,and  Her marriage to Albert changed her approach
        Vicky for short – Albert pushed a note under the   shedidsofor70years.Theywouldbeimpulsive,  entirely, though. Her frequent pregnancies meant
        queen’s door. “I shall have nothing more to do with   revealingherfeelingsandthoughtsastheycameto  she wasn’t always able to carry out her full suite of
        it; take the child away and do as you like and if she   her. From the age of 13, they allowed her to release  duties alone, so Albert would step up and take on
        dies you will have it on your conscience,” he wrote.   heremotionsandrevealhercharacter.Yetherearly  more of the work. He enjoyed this immensely, but it
          The disagreements over childcare          life was lonely. Victoria’s father, the duke of  did put a strain on the relationship. Victoria wished
        led to the departure of Victoria’s              Kent,diedwhenshewaseightmonths  to spend more time with him, but he would throw
        governess Baroness Louise                         old, and she was brought up by a  himself into his work, often becoming a prisoner
        Lehzen, who had controlled the  VICTORIA’S         controlling yet indulgent mother  of his own ideas (Ridley notes that he spent hours
        court and the queen’s private                       and Baroness Lehzen.       relentlessly transcribing and editing letters written
        expenditure. Albert did not    SECRETS                 Victoria was addressed as  by the queen, or in reality written by him, to suit a
        like Lehzen “who regards     Aged15,Victoriais       ‘your royal highness’ from a very  new topic-based filing system he had created). As
        herself as a demi-god.”     said to have had an      youngage,andshewas aspoilt  time went on, Albert would become responsible for
        Reluctantly, Victoria agreed.   affair with a Scottish  child.Butshewasalsoclosely  running the queen’s household, estates and office.
        “I am ready to submit to his   nobleman, the 13th    monitored and under constant  On many occasions, Victoria’s temper came to
        wishes as I love him so dearly,”  Lord Elphinstone  scrutiny.In1830,whenVictoria  the fore. She would remind Albert that she was the
        she wrote in a letter to Baron                     was 11 years old, Lehzen introduced  queen and insisted that she got the upper hand.
        Stockmar, the Anglo-Belgian                      ‘behaviour books’, in which an  Yet she would usually relent, writing apologies and
        statesman sent by Prince Leopold of            assessment of the princess’s attitude was  actually helping Albert boost his power further.
        Saxe-Coburg-Gotha to serve as her adviser.  recorded.Shewasalsoeducatedinisolation  Deep down, she wanted her husband – a man who
          The couple had nine children in total. Victoria   underwhatwascalledthe‘KensingtonSystem’,  the British public had found hard to accept – to be
        had become pregnant within weeks of marrying   anelaborateandstrictsetofrulesdevisedbyher  embraced. Her feelings of pride when he opened
        Albert, and Vicky had been born on 21 November   mother and attendant Sir John Conroy.  his personal project, the Great Exhibition in Hyde
        1840. Her second, Albert Edward, was born the   Her freedom was curtailed, her life restrained,  Park in 1851, were obvious. But at the same time,
        following year, Alice two years later and Alfred the   andshebegantofeelhermotherhadbecomehard  she felt her power being diminished, her temper
        year after that. Helena came into the world in 1846,   of heart. Victoria had been diagnosed with typhoid  becoming so heated at times that some feared she
        Louise in 1848, Arthur in 1850, Leopold in 1853 and   in 1835, aged 16, and Victoire had failed to nurse  was losing her mind.
        Beatrice in 1857. Nine children in 17 years meant   her.Instead,sheandSirJohntriedtopersuade  Ridley notes in her biography that as early as
        that for much of her marriage Victoria was carrying   Victoriatomake himherprivatesecretaryupon  1842 Albert began to attend ministerial meetings
        a baby or nurturing her newborns. Yet she hated   her succession and agree that she was not fit to  and the queen spoke not of “I” but “we.” Albert
        being pregnant. “I think much more of our being   ruleuntilshewas21.Victoriaresisted.Shehated  would write many of the queen’s important letters
        like a cow or a dog at such moments,” she would   Sir John, who bullied her and called her ugly and  and sit beside her as she received ministers.
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