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around me. I think I am the same even now. My philosophy has been this simple all my life: you are your own happiness! I                literary critics in Milano on 18th of May 2019  were really of great satisfaction and importance.
                                               wrote a short poetry about it when I was a student during my university studies.
                                                                                                                                                                                       It is very hard to change society as a single human being. I think we all should first change our own mind and way of seeing the world around us. To focus on our
                                               I stated to play music in elementary school. We had a great music teacher who pleaded a school orchestra and played himself             self can help us to see what is really important in our own life and what is a burden to ourselves. What is necessary to be happy and satisfied person. Trying to
                                               several music instruments. I started with according that I liked so much in that time. I passed hours and hours exercising and          liberate us of ego and any kind of egoism is gaining the freedom we all are longing for.  To be able to find joy and happiness in little things is a big wisdom.
                                               it was so pleasant to me. I had a great understanding of my parents that even engaged a private teacher who gave me some                Material things and easy life are very trilling but if me damage others it is not good for anybody. Being in peace with us within us will help be in peace with others.
                                               extra lessons weekly. Later I passed to the sax and the clatinet and was in love with both instruments. Something that started          Happy and satisfied person is good person. This person will not look for things of others, will not be jealous , will never envy others. This person will not look for
                                               ad a game turned to be my lifetime inspiration that has been acompaning me during my whole life and giving me such a                    power or use others for his own interest or pleasure. If me manage to change our self the world will change immediately. It seems impossible but should be very
                                               professional and personal satisfaction that I feel very satisfied and happy person realising myself in all I like. There is no          possible and easy if each of us just work on himself. All the test would come by itself as a result of it. No poverty, no war, no egoism. There is a place for everybody
                                               higher blessing ,after our health , than to do, and be able to earn for living, things we like. So music has been my great love         on this nice planet
                                               and strength during all these years from childhood to mature age. And I managed to transfer this passion to my son who is
                                                                                                                                                                                       A.   I don't know if  I deserve to be among 25 virtuous women. I have never thought about it. I just have been doing the best I can things I love and believe in. I
                                               both the pianist and the violinist with university degrees. When I was 12 my father bought me a little camera "Smena" as a
                                                                                                                                                                                       have never search for glory or fame , I searched for my inner happiness and satisfaction. But yes, I tried always to be near people trying to pass to them my
                                               birthday present and photography entered into my life as something magic. I was taking photographs all around and  was
                                                                                                                                                                                       enthusiasm and motivation to find their own way to satisfaction and happiness. My all work is turn to others to pleasure them. To open up their eyes and mind to
                                               exciting to see photos later that at one moment my father said to slow down as I spent too much money for films and
                                                                                                                                                                                       beauty. Artists work to make people blissful but in their work they are blissful too. I try to teach people to be their own happiness, the spring of joy we all have in
              developing photographs. Many of them I lost during the war in ex Yugoslavia, in reality I think my mother had to burn them to heat the room during the severe
                                                                                                                                                                                       our self. This is the only reason I maybe could be part of virtuous women.  I don' t have such a big ego that would ever pretend to it.
              winters when the war was destroying all and they had no even water nor electricity in home. Like other people she burned all she had to get some heat to pass
              severe winters.  Anyway luckily some of my best photograps I took with me Italy and they are still with me in my personal collection. Later with appearance of           B.   Maybe just hard work with humble character made my ego  controlled. I don't know if it is called depersonalisation as it is impossible . We all have our
              digital photography all became easier and much cheaper so I turned to photography again with great pleasure. I won some important competitions and got great             personality and it comes out so strongly in art, each kind of art. Each person see and interpret the same thing different way as we all feel and live things and
              satisfactions in this field too. But my greatest love for sure has always be literature. I have this natural necessity  to express myself with words and verses that     emotions differently. So each of us is his own universe and his own reality. Taking ego under control, be humble and normal person is what I think the most
              writing poetry became something so natural to me, the essential need to transfer my feelings in words. Writing poetry helps me to turn into myself and to                important. This is good, positive and valuable depersonalisation. Consider myself the same as others. At the end we are all just human beings living our life as a
              contemplate my inner being and to find all energy I need in myself. Apart of poetry I write short stories about moments in my life, events and relations inside my       gift on this planet.
              family and life as well as stories about friends and other people or particular moments in life, memories, illusions, dreams....Travelling a lot , mostly because of
              music I observe the world and people I meet on my travels and spontaneously I started to write travel books describing all I see around myself adding photographs
              and my paintings. What a great satisfaction!

              Painting is also my great interest and love that utterly gives me pleasure and it is sometimes like psychotherapy sometimes bare necessity  to paint and use colours.
              So my life has been gravitating in several kinds of arts that penetrate in each other making my life beautiful and permitting me to live doing what I like. Looking
              back to my work thru years I cannot cay I have had some serious gaolers. Maybe the main reason is I have never expected anything so big or important I focused
              myself to do the things I love the best way I can. So not waiting for a lot I received much more success than I thought I could. It has been always the up coming line
              as I was perfectioning myself and my skills. Every little success gave me enough energy, motivation and desire to go ahead. It doesn't mean I had no my doubts or
              hesitations or I was always sure I do the right way. But I persist with my ideas. My goal has never be to become famous, I just wanted to be very good or best in my
              work. So I worked a lot and always wanted to superate  myself that was not always easy and sometimes it brought me into kind of unsatisfaction or slight
              desolation. But it was for a short time as my creativity push me to restart my work or to continue. The biggest success for me is when people like my work. Several
              exhibitions were completely sold, photography won some important prizes, applause for performing and interest for my literary work are my success. Than if
              prizes arrive it is just the confirmation for my work and they always arrive. The last two "The Golden Pen" in Uzbekistan and The special recognition of Italian

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