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SENSE OF                                                                           The inner you
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                                                                                           Most of us believe that we have
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                                                                                           an inner “self” that defines our
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                                                                                           personalities. The concept has
       SELF                                                                                 no biological basis, and most
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                                                                                            scientists think it is an illusion.
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                                                                                            Yet it is a very powerful idea,
                                                                                            Y Yet it is a very pow
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                                                                                            and it forms the basis of the
                                                                                            a
                                                                                            “soul” that many people believe
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                                                                                            survives even after death.
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         You know who you are. You recognize
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         yourself in mirrors and pictures. You
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         have an image of yourself that includes
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         your personality and your beliefs about
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         how others see you. This self-awareness
         enables you to think about your identity
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         and how you relate to other people. It is
         what we call consciousness.     .









































              That’s me!                                              Self-esteem
              If you put a cat in front of a mirror, it may not       We all have an idea of how we would
              react at all. Birds don’t recognize themselves          like to be. If we think we don’t match up
              either; instead, some see a rival and try to drive      to this ideal, we feel bad about ourselves—we have
              it away. Human babies are similar, but at the           low self-esteem. Quite often the ideal is not realistic,
              age of around 18 months, they know who they are         but sometimes our judgment of our self is inaccurate
              looking at—they have developed a sense of self.         and we are actually closer to the ideal than we think.

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