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                                          and working with what you’ve got. You can   they helping or hindering you?
                                          keep track of the physical side of things by   • How do you feel about your relationship
                                          noting the following:              with yourself and others in this phase?
                                          • Energy levels                    • How do the people around you react to
                                          • Trouble sleeping                 you when you’re in this phase, and how do
                                          • Libido                           their reactions feel to you?
                                          • Appetite                         • What challenges are you facing, how can
                                          • Digestive upsets                 you support yourself and how can you ask
                                          • Breast tenderness                for support?
                                          • Headaches                        • What are your natural talents in each
                                          • Backache or other body pain      phase, and how can you elevate them or
                                          • Menstrual cycle pain             make them seen/heard by others?
                                          • Basal body temperature           • What support can you give yourself or ask
                                          • Cervical luid                    of others in each phase?

                                          You also need to note how you’re feeling   PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER
                                          emotionally. The ability to recognise the   At the end of each cycle, take some time to
                                          emotions that we feel varies from person   recap your experience of charting and of
                                          to person. It took me a long time and a   what you’ve tracked. What intention or plan
                                          whole heap of therapy to be able to name   did you set for this cycle and did it happen?
                                          what was going on inside me, so in case you   What enabled that or got in the way? What
                                          struggle to do so too, or need help on some   insights have you gained and how can you
                                          days of your cycle, here’s a quick list for you   practically apply them to future cycles?
                                          to refer to:                       How can you love yourself more? If you’re
                                          • At peace                         using the menstrual dial or a diary then you
                                          • Scattered                        can assess where each season began and
                                          • Hyper                            ended by colour coding each day. By doing
                                          • Grounded                         this you’ll see how predictable your cycle is.
                                          • Restless
                                          • Anxious                          PLAN IT OUT
                                          • Depressed                        If you realise that there are days which are
                                          • Resilient                        consistently tricky for you, write warnings
                                                                             about them in your calendar. I’m a fan of
                                          You can also identify your needs for:  sticking ‘slow down’ as an all-day event on
                                          • Food                             days 1, 2, 6, and 20, days when I can feel
                                          • Hydration                        slightly depleted, and ‘be alone’ on days
                                          • Sleep                            21 and 24 when I really crave solitude and
                                          • Company and conversation         silence. Cycle tracking helps you to plan
                                          • Space and quiet                  when to work hard, when to rest, when to
                                          • Activity                         hit the gym, when to be social, and when
                                          • Intimacy and sex                 to take some time for yourself. Most of us
                                          • Arts and culture                 are unable to live a life that’s 100 percent in
       rate each item out of 10 when they    • Time to do what’s important to you  tune with our cycle, so it’s about bringing in
       apply. When you keep track like this,    • A hot bath                 awareness to those times where life doesn’t
       I recommend including space for your    • Help                        sync up with the phase that we’re in.
       non-ratable musings because there are
       bound to be some!                  For the days when you want to explore
                                          your mood and experiences more deeply,            BOOKshelf
       KEEPING TRACK                      here are some questions to relect on. It’s        Extracted from Maisie
       This daily practice will make you stronger –   okay to answer one or all of them:    Hill’s bestselling
       and I don’t mean improving things so that   • What feels easy today? What feels hard?  book Period Power:
       your mood and energy never dips, because   • What needs do you have, emotionally,    Harness Your
       newslash, you’re human. Sure, strength   physically, spiritually, and practically? How   Hormones and get
       is about your physical capabilities, but   can you tend to them in this cycle and in   Your Cycle Working
       there’s also strength in being vulnerable,   future cycles?                          for You (Published by
       in softening and easing up on yourself, in   • What parts of your personality are in play   Bloomsbury, £12.99)
       recognising and respecting where you’re at,   during this phase of your cycle? How are

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