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172       F AMILIES


        Different families                                                 SEE ALSO             174–175  ›

                                                                           Parent-teen relationships
                                                                           Dealing with conflict   178–179  ›
        Families come in all shapes and sizes. Every family is unique,     Difficult events     180–181  ›
        no matter what structure it is categorized under. Whether there    Siblings             182–183  ›
        are one or two parents, multiple kids or one kid, everyone in
        the family unit has an important role.

        One of a kind                                   TEEN  HINTS

        In modern society, there is a large range of family   Family structures
        structures, some of which are shown here. Each   Sometimes a family structure can change – due to a death,
        family has its own special set up, which includes   separation, divorce, or new marriage, for example. Finding your way
        how individuals in the family show love and care   in a new family structure can be hard, especially when what was your
        for each other, what their values are, and how   “normal” has been unexpectedly altered. But change often brings the
        they set boundaries for the family to operate   opportunity to form relationships with new people. These people will
        within. All these elements help a family to     never replace the people in your old family structure, but will help
        build a strong foundation together.             you to form, and be a part of developing, a new family structure.


                                                             ▷ Foster families
                                                             Sometimes, due to issues in their own family,
                                                             children may need to leave their biological
               ▷ Small families                              parents to join a foster family temporarily.
               Sometimes called a “micro-                    Foster parents are specially trained carers.
               family”, this family includes
               two adults and one child.













                                                        △ ▷ LGBTQ parent families
             △ Step-parent families                     Families with lesbian and gay
             When one of a child’s parents finds a new   parents are also called “same-sex
             partner, that partner becomes the child’s   families”. This is a large and
             step-parent and their children become step-  varied group.
             siblings. The adult assumes the role of a parent,
             but is not biologically related to the child.




         ▷ Extended families
         When extended family, such as grandparents,
         aunts, and uncles, live under one roof,
         childcare may be shared and close family
         bonds develop.






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