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190       REL ATIONSHIPS


        Interactions                                                       SEE ALSO
                                                                           ‹
                                                                           ‹ 130–131  Social media
                                                                            188–189  Friendships
        At home and at school, in their social lives and hobbies,          Peer pressure        192–193  ›
        teens interact with many different people for many different       Healthy relationships   198–199  ›
        reasons. All of these interactions are important to their own
        social development.


        Different people, different roles
        As well as family and friends, teens naturally cross paths
        with many different people. From their doctor to their bus
        driver, their friend’s brother to the cashier at the shops, these
        interactions can be important elements in people’s lives. It
        is through these moments that teens learn how to relate to
        different people. For example, the way a person speaks to their
        close friends is very different from the information they share   △ Connecting online
        with, and the way they speak to, a teacher – and yet both are   Online social platforms allow people
        essential relationships within the teen’s life.            to interact with real-world friends
                                                                   and online connections, too.



        Making acquaintances                                                      ◁ Peers
                                                                                  Strong friendships
        Acquaintances can be just as valuable as friendships in a                 provide support and
        person’s life, with many people contributing through different            close emotional bonds.
        day-to-day interactions. This creates a sense of belonging in a
        community and helps to hold a society together.



               ▽ Public transport
               People end up in each other’s personal
               space on public transport. Being courteous
               to others can help relieve the tension, but
               teens should seek help if someone makes
               them feel uncomfortable.












                                                                         △ Doing charity work
                                                                         Charity work gives people a chance
                                                                         to meet new people and introduce
                                                                         the public to different ideas.









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