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ANXIE T Y  AND  DEPRESSION            95

        Depression                                                       ALERT !
        People often say “I’m depressed” when they are sad. But in fact, depression lasts   Suicidal feelings
        longer than the feeling that comes when something upsetting has happened.
        Depression may be triggered by experiencing a traumatic event, such as the loss   Suicide is the act of intentionally ending
        of a loved one, moving house, or changing school, but sometimes it can happen   your own life. Sometimes people with
        for no reason at all. People who are depressed feel persistently down and usually   depression, or those experiencing
        experience one or more of the following symptoms.                intolerable feelings, can start to feel that
                                                                         their life isn’t worth living. This feeling is
                                                                         usually temporary, but it’s essential to seek
                                                                         help immediately if you feel this way.
                                                                         For some people, it helps to speak to
                                                                         someone they don’t know. There are phone
              Symptoms                                                   helplines available 24 hours a day, every day
                                                                         of the year, or counsellors that can be
                                                                         reached by text or email.
              • Constantly feeling sad, low, or worthless, sometimes irritable
               or tearful                                                If you’re worried for a friend, encourage
                                                                         them to talk about their feelings and listen
                                                                         carefully. Advise them to get help as quickly
              • Losing interest or pleasure in normally enjoyable things
                                                                         as possible. They may seem to push you
              • Having difficulty concentrating and making decisions
                                                                         away or appear indifferent at first, but stick
             • Feeling unable to fall asleep, and sleeping less or more than usual
                                                                         by them and offer your support.
             • Changes in appetite and subsequent weight loss or gain
             • Headaches, tiredness or loss of energy, and feeling restless





                                                                          What to avoid
                                                                          There are some pitfalls to avoid if a teen
                                                                          is feeling anxious or depressed.
         See the doctor                   Medical treatment                 Too much
                                          When anxiety                      online time
         A nurse or doctor                and depression
         will be able to                                                    Be smart about
         help if further                  persist, the                      online time. Too
                                          doctor may
         support                                                            much, especially
         is needed.                       prescribe                         on social media,
                                          medication.                       may worsen a
                                                                            teen’s mood.


         Counselling                      Cognitive                         Drink or drugs
                                          Behavioural                       Don’t rely on
         Talking is one of                Therapy (CBT)                     these for a
         the first and best
         steps to get help                CBT is a method                   mood boost.
                                                                            They make
         with anxiety and                 of changing
         depression.                      negative thought                  anxiety and
                                                                            depression worse.
                                          patterns.







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