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Life Kids




                        ‘Our kids love


                       meeting up too!’



              I set up my Instagram account about a year
              ago as a way to document my son Oscar’s
              childhood. I soon felt part of a lovely
              community of mums. I was delighted
              when one of them, Chelsea,
              messaged me to ask if I lived                 MeganCagney,
              in Manchester like her. After                   25,asupply
              discovering the local connection              teacher,livesin
              and that we have boys of roughly             Manchesterwith
              the same age, she’s now one of             partnerLukeandson
              my closest friends!                           Oscar,15months
                We met “in real life” at the Baby
              Show, and since then we catch up
              every couple of weeks. The boys’ eyes
              light up when they see each other. Chelsea
              and I have met recently at a baby event, a
              restaurant, and we even had beauty treatments
              together (child-free, of course!).
                Meanwhile, our online friendship has
              continued too. Chelsea’s a nurse so if I have
              any concerns about Oscar’s health she’s happy
              to help. The other day I sent her a photo of
              a rash Oscar had, and she put my mind at
              rest, encouraging me to do the glass test to
              rule out meningitis. I honestly don’t know                                                                    Megan(left)and
              what I’d do without Chelsea!                                                                                  Chelsea;friends
                                                                                                                           online–andinlife




                                                                            Faye(right)and
                                                                              Jessforgeda
                                                                              friendshipvia
                                                                                 Instagram          ‘We just clicked’


                                                                                                      While being thrown into early
                                                                                                      motherhood was amazing, it can
                                                                                                      also be isolating and lonely. Seeing
                                                                                                      the experiences of other mums on
                                                                                                      Instagram made me realise that was
                                                                                                      totally normal. The posts from one
                                                                                                      mum in particular, Jess, caught my
                                                                                                          eye, however. I messaged her
                                                                                                             and realised we had loads in
                                                                                             Faye              common, including our passion
                                                                                       Shearwood,35,a            for travelling, photography,
                                                                                      stay-at-homemum,           and breastfeeding.
                                                                                       livesinBuckswith             Soon after, we arranged
                                                                                       partnerClintand
                                                                                      childrenEvelynRose,         to meet up in person, and
                                                                                         10months,and            we just clicked. Jess is
                                                                                           Beau,five             creative, intelligent and has
                                                                                                               a similar laid-back approach
                                                                                                            to parenting as me. We’ve met
                                                                                                        up with our kids at farm parks and
                                                                                                      for walks, and I’ve even been to Jess’s
                                                                                                      daughter Eliana’s birthday party. And
                                                                                                      it’s all thanks to Instagram that we have
                                                                                                      such a brilliant friendship!



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