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NURSING: THE  PHIL O S OPHY   A ND SCIENCE  OF   C A R IN G ,  revI s e d   ed I t I o n
           the past decade or so and need to continue to unfold with more spec-
           ificity—something related to the ICC project—ultimately leading to
           better documentation and assessment of Caring/Caritas.
              I invite readers to identify the ontological-literacy processes they
           bring to their caring-healing practice and to continue to contribute
           to  more  specificity  so  these  practices  can  be  taught,  documented,
           researched, and practiced.

            wATSON’S Caritas LITERACY DImENSIONS: A wORk IN PROGRESS
                • Cultivate Caring consciousness and intentionality as a starting
                point
                • Ability to “Center”—quiet down, pause before entering patient’s
                room or be still in the presence of the other
                • Ability to “read the field” when entering into the life space or
                field of another

                • Ability to Be present—Be with other as well as Do for other
                • Accurately identify and address person by name
                • Maintain eye contact as appropriate for person/cultural meaning
                and sensitivity

                • Ability to ground self and other for comforting, soothing, calm-
                ing acts
                • Accurately detect other’s feelings
                • Stay within the other’s frame of reference

                • Invite and authentically listen to the inner meaning, the subjec-
                tive story of other
               •  Authentically listen/hear behind the words
               •  Hold other with an attitude of unconditional loving-kindness,
                equanimity, dignity, and regard
                • Ability to be with “silence,” waiting for other to reflect before
                responding to questions, allowing other’s inner thoughts to
                emerge
               •  Respond to the other’s feelings and mood verbally and nonver-
                bally, with authentic affective congruence




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