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198       REL ATIONSHIPS


        Healthy relationships                                              SEE ALSO
                                                                           ‹
                                                                           ‹ 174–175  Parent-teen relationships
                                                                            188–189  Friendships
        Teens form relationships with different people. They range from    ‹ 194–195  Dating
        friendships and teacher-student connections to family and romantic   Unhealthy relationships   200–201  ›
        relationships. Every relationship is different, but they should all
        involve some basic qualities to make them worthwhile and positive.

        What is a healthy relationship?                        Stronger together

        Understanding what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy can   In a healthy relationship, these traits exist without
        be a tricky thing to establish. In short, a healthy relationship is built    condition, exception, or pressure. Each person should
        on respect, equality, trust, and safety. All of these elements are   feel that they can respond or act in a way that they
        needed, and they need to be present on both sides.     feel comfortable with. People can show each trait to
                                                               somone by the things they do and say, and the kindness
                                                               and affection they show each other.




            Your diary was
           open, so I closed                                  I’m glad you told            I’m feeling
           it. I didn’t read it,    Let’s figure out          me that. I won’t            angry – can
          but wanted to let         which movie to             talk to anyone                we talk
              you know.             watch together.             else about it.             about this?













              respect                  equality                   trust                    safety













        ▷ Healthy traits
        Collectively, the different traits,
        bonded together, make a
        relationship strong and lasting.
        Each individual trait is important
        to a relationship’s health.






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