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                       body                                    Accepting sexuality
                      image
                                       love                    Some people struggle to come to terms with their
                                                               sexuality, while others ignore or repress theirs because
                                                               of pressure to conform to cultural or social expectations.
                                                               However, whether or not people express it, sexuality
                                                               is a normal part of being human and there’s a broad
                                                               spectrum of ways in which people sexually identify
                                                               themselves. Each person’s sexuality and sexual identity
                                                 desire        is unique to them.
                        emotional






                                           sex
                                                         abstinence







                                                                    sexual
                                                                    health
                                             physical





                                                                               P ARENT  TIPS
                                disability                   contraception     Discussing sexuality
                                                                               • Reflect on your own feelings and
                                                                                values about sex and sexuality.
                                               pleasure
                                                                               • Start talking with your tween
                                                                                or teen early about different
                                                                                people's identities and about
                                                                                sex and sexuality.
                           you                                                 • Being frank and honest will
                                                                                alleviate awkwardness and help
                                                  self                          keep communication open.
                                               awareness                       • Build trust by allowing your teen
                                                                                to think through their ideas and
        gender                                                                  by listening to them without
                                                                                judgement or interruptions.

                                    preferences
                    upbringing








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