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208       SEXU ALIT Y


        Different sexual identities                                        SEE ALSO
                                                                           ‹
                                                                           ‹ 194–195  Dating
                                                                            206–207  Sexuality
        A person’s sexual identity describes the gender(s) of the people who   Attraction       210–211  ›
        they want to be romantic or sexual with. Sexual identity is just one   Coming out       212–213  ›
        part of who a person is, and they should not be defined by it.

        Useful terms                                                 GOOD  T O  KNO W
        There are many different words that are used when people talk   LGBTQ+
        about sexual identity. If a person doesn’t see themselves represented   LGBTQ is a collective term for sexual identities that
        in the list below, it is because of the limitations of such definitions,   aren’t straight. A + sign is sometimes added at the
        not because that teen cannot be who they are.                end to indicate the wider spectrum of sexualities
                                                                     not included in the existing letters.




         Straight                         Gay                               Bisexual
         A person is described as straight,   This term descibes someone    A person who is bisexual, or bi,
         or heterosexual, if they want to be   who prefers to be romantic and   wants to be romantic and sexual
         romantic and sexual with people   sexual with people of the same   with people of the same sex and of
         of a different sex.              sex. They are sometimes referred   a different sex. They are sometimes
                                          to as homosexual.                 called pansexual.
















         Asexual                           Aromantic                        Queer
         An asexual person isn’t interested in   Someone who is aromantic isn’t   This term is used to describe a
         sexual contact with anyone. They   interested in romantic connections   wide range of sexual identities,
         may or may not be interested in   with anyone. They may or may not   other than straight.
         romantic connections.             be interested in sexual contact.





















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