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【高三理和 庄培君】


              Learn to put yourself in their shoes.

              To the ones who are hurting:
              As absurd as it may sound, those who are the “victims” of being dragged down mentally
              should  also  learn  to  look  from  other  people’s  point  of  view.  Case  in  point,  it  is
              understandable that you may be going through an intolerable part of your life. You may
              feel like there is no light at the other end of this dark tunnel you are in, but a little
              empathy is just what you need to get through the tunnel.

              While your life may be utterly devastating, don’t forget that there are others out there
              in this world who are just like you or who are in a much more agony than you are. So why
              don’t  we  all  try  to  look  from  everyone’s  perspective,  you’ll  find  all  the  little  good
              blessings in your life that way. By doing so, the positive thoughts will blossom, defeating
              the obscure energy in your mind and helping you walk out of it one itty bitty step at
              a time.

              Once you’ve managed to keep the bad thoughts and feelings at bay, you can empathize
              with others in a way that no one else can: by using your own experience and testimony as
              a guideline to give hope to those in need of a little positivity. Through saving yourself
              with self-love, you end up saving someone else’s life. Nothing is better than sharing the
              pain with someone who personally understands all that you’re going through.

              Learn to put yourself in their shoes too.

              Hence, no matter who you are, it is still important to leave some space for a little hero
              called “Empathy” to grow in your hearts. For some, this may be impossible, but it is only
              impossible if you don’t try. Therefore, learn how to think about others first and look at
              matters from their own views.

              In the future, while walking along the streets, as different people pass by, remember that
              each and every one who crosses path with you has their own story to tell. Learn to put
              yourself in their shoes and learn to love and accept everyone for who they are.








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