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                                 I’d like to carry
                        Q  my baby more but

               I also have a jealous toddler!                       SKIN-TO-SKIN              next feed before he becomes hungry and upset.
                                                                      Babywearing
                                                                                                There are health benefits, too. Close contact
             How can I keep everyone happy?                            has also been          helps regulate your baby’s temperature,
              A: It’s natural for your toddler to feel jealous when    found to benefit       breathing and heart rate, but carrying your
             you’re with your baby, but carrying will actually make    breastfeeding.         baby can also feel like a lifesaver if your baby
             sure your hands are free to give him the attention he     A study carried        suffers from colic, reflux or constipation. This
                craves. When your youngest is happily settled          out in Italy in        is because an effective baby carrier holds your
              in the carrier, make sure you take the opportunity      2012 found infants      baby upright with his legs in an M position
                      to have some special one-on-one               who spent at least an     – where his knees are higher than his bottom
                        time with your first-born so he            hour a day in a baby        – a position which promotes healthy digestion.
                             doesn’t feel left out.
                                                               carrier during the first       ‘Babies with colic can be hard to soothe, but
                                                          month breastfed more                the motion gained from being gently rocked

                                                   frequently at two and five months          while the parent walks often helps to settle
                                         than those who weren’t carried.                      them,’ says Rosie. ‘A good carrier encourages
                                           One of the reasons babywearing can help            an upright position, which can reduce
                                         breastfeeding is that it promotes skin-to-skin       posseting and reflux, and a spread squat
                                         contact, which boosts levels of the hormones         position helps aid bowel elimination.’ With
                                         oxytocin and prolactin, both of which play an        all these benefits to be gained, your next step
                                         important role in ensuring he’s ready for his        is finding the right carrier for you…


                                                                  Choose your carrier




                                                    Follow our quiz to discover which carrier is right for you…

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                                         CHILD?                             videotofollow                       USEYOURCARRIERFOR?
                                         A Underfourmonths                                                      A Iwantsomethingmybaby
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                                         C 12monthsorolder                                                      Icanbreastfeedin
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                                         AT FOLLOWING                       athavingagoatmost
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                                         INSTRUCTIONS?                      things                              C Carrying my toddler when his
                                         A Yes, so long as Ihaveclear
                                                                                                                legs are getting tired



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                                            Many parents with young            Soft structured baby                Toddler versions of soft
                                            babies find a stretchy              carriers or buckle carriers         structured carriers are
                                            wrap a good option. It’s           are quick and simple to             available and allow you to
                                            soft and comfortable and           use, and can be easily              carry your little one on
                                            offers good support to              adjusted for different               either your front or back
                                            your little one, so he             people or as your baby              when his legs get tired.
                                            doesn’t need to have good          grows. Buckle carriers are          These allow for facing you
                                            head control. Some find             ideal for babies who have           or outward facing, which
                                            the wrapping technique             good head control, but              helps keep wriggly, nosy
                                            confusing, and it can be           some are suitable from              toddlers entertained. They
                                            tricky to get right at first.       birth; others may need              often come in a variety of
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