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                                        Getty Images           Leader’s Self-Insight 9.2



                                                                                  Listening Self-Inventory

            Go through the following questions, answering No or Yes   9. I notice the speaker’s “deliv-
            next to each question. Mark each as truthfully as you can   ery” style which may distract
            in light of your behavior in the last few meetings or social   me from the content.  _______  _______
            gatherings you attended.                         10. I often ask people to clarify
                                                                what they have said rather
                                           No      Yes          than guess at the meaning.  _______  _______
             1. I frequently attempt to listen
                                                             11. I make a concerted effort to
               to several conversations at the
                                                                understand other people’s
               same time.                _______  _______
                                                                points of view.          _______   _______
             2. I like people to give me the
                                                             12. People feel that I have under-
               facts and then let me make
                                                                stood their point of view even
               my own interpretation.    _______  _______
                                                                when we disagree.        _______   _______
             3. I sometimes pretend to pay
               attention to people.      _______   _______
                                                             Scoring and Interpretation
             4. I pay attention to nonverbal                 The correct answers according to communication theory
               communications.           _______  _______    are as follows: No for questions 1, 2, 3, 5, 6, 7, 8, and 9.
             5. I usually know what another                  Yes for questions 4, 10, 11, and 12.
               person is going to say before                   If you missed only two or three questions, you
               he or she says it.        _______   _______   strongly approve of your own listening habits and you
                                                             are on the right track to becoming an effective listener
             6. I usually respond immediately
                                                             in your role as a leader. If you missed four or five ques-
               when someone has finished
                                                             tions, you have uncovered some doubts about your
               talking.                  _______  _______
                                                             listening effectiveness, and your knowledge of how to
             7. I evaluate what is being said
                                                             listen has some gaps. If you missed six or more ques-
               while it is being said.   _______  _______
                                                             tions, you probably are not satisfied with the way you
             8. I usually formulate a response               listen, and your followers and co-workers might feel that
               while the other person is still               you are not paying attention when they speak. Work on
               talking.                  _______  _______    improving your active listening skills.




                                       Being a good listener expands a leader’s role in the eyes of others and en-
                                   hances the leader’s infl uence. Consider the example of Patrick Charmel, CEO of
                                   Griffi n Hospital in Derby, Connecticut. When Charmel took the top job, he knew
                                   that actively listening to employees and patients was key to helping the com-
                                   munity hospital survive against larger, more aggressive competitors. Charmel
                                   implemented virtually every requested change, including installing wooden
                                   rather than steel handrails in hallways, banning fl uorescent bulbs in favor of
                                   soft, indirect lighting, and adding cozy, home-style kitchens within easy access
                                   of all patient rooms. In addition, every patient now takes part in a detailed “case
                                   conference” with doctors, nurses, and other caregivers. They’re encouraged to
                                   look at their medical charts and given detailed literature about their condition.
                                   Employees throughout the hospital are authorized to make decisions and take
                                   actions within their area of expertise based on the best interest of the patient. 25
                                   By listening to the needs of patients and employees, and subsequently responding
                                   to those needs, Charmel transformed Griffi n Hospital—as well as the relation-
                                   ships between leaders and employees and between employees and patients. This

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